Fake people should get real
by Kasey Putman, staff writer
I have
come to realize that confiding in a person is something that
many people take for granted.
With that
comes a problem, a sickness obtained that a doctor can’t
fix, called being two-faced.
I’m not
talking about a Siamese twin, but a person who acts
differently depending on who they are with. Never knowing
which person you are going to encounter on a day-to-day
basis makes trusting this person very difficult.
You see,
when a person is two-faced, it is as if he or she has
multiple personalities. The only difference is that when a
person has multiple personalities, it is a mental disorder
that can be helped by a prescribed drug. It also is
sometimes curable.
But being
two-faced is much worse. This is a way for a person to be
“liked” by several different cliques at once.
This
poses, yet again, another problem. Sooner or later that
person forgets who they were with. This is not a good
combination, because the talk among different cliques is now
intertwined.
Unfortunately, things become much worse, because now
everyone knows this person can’t be trusted, and now he or
she has to find new friends.
This is a
never-ending cycle between many social groups.
So I
wonder how someone would want to accumulate a reputation
such as this. I think that it’s because he or she is a drama
queen.
A person
who possesses these qualities thinks he or she is putting up
a front. But in all actuality, everyone sees through him or
her.
To this
person’s dismay, it takes a while to straighten out this
mess he or she created.
But wait-
he or she is a drama queen, so what better thing is there to
do than create more drama?
He or she
will continue to point the blame because he or she got
caught.
So I
advise you to run away from this type of person if you ever
find yourself in this situation.
The truth
is that a drama queen will try to make you feel guilty for
what he or she did, because he or she is two-faced and has a
guilty conscience.
The whole
time you thought this person was your “friend,” he or she
only appeared to be that that way.
I think
the only logical solution to this problem is to stop being
fake. If someone doesn’t like you for who you are, then he
or she doesn’t deserve to be your friend.
But at
least you are being real, and no one will get his or her
feelings hurt.