"Just getting by" College requires more than 'just enough'
by Ray Buffington, editor-in-chief
There are some things in life you can
complete by “just getting by”.
Paying the minimum on your
almost-maxed-out credit card bill (I still regret the day I
entered Buckle’s outlet store armed with a Mastercard),
working only 40 hours a week even though there is a pile of
paperwork left to do when the weekend comes (All that data
entry can wait… it’s Friday!), just having the oil changed
on your car while it is making a suspicious rattling sound
in the engine (Hey, it still runs, right?), skipping a
shower and only slathering on a good layer of deodorant
because you are late to class (Thank God for cologne), and
living off crackers and Ramen because you haven’t been to
the grocery store yet (I needed to lose a pound or two
anyway).
These are the mundane, everyday things
that almost everyone participates in when it comes to “just
getting by” for it bears no extreme consequence. At least,
until you find yourself stranded on the highway with a
broken-down car, a declined credit card, smelling like
covered up body odor, with your breakfast of the bottle of
water and three-week old leftovers from Josie’s that was all
that was left in your refrigerator. However, one thing I
believe you should never “just get by” when completing,
which many students do anyway, is college.
Many moons ago, when I was a naďve
little freshman attending my first college class, the first
one there, sitting in front, bright-eyed and bushy-tailed, I
was shocked when I was handed a syllabus that deemed “making
a 60 or above” was considered passing. The standards from
high school that I was accustomed to had definitely changed.
Even as the professor was explaining how a “D” in the class
meant you were home free from the berating of angry parents
and taking another round of the same class, I couldn’t fully
grasp why anyone would want to settle with a “just getting
by” score during the possibly most important four years of
their lives.
Then, I became astounded at what I
heard my fellow classmates saying. I would hear, “Man, I
have a 40 right now, so I gotta get a 95 on this test to get
a 60 in here,” or “No, I didn’t study. A ‘D’ isn’t hard to
get. Besides, this class doesn’t have anything to do with my
major,” and “I’ve missed like… five classes. But I’m not
worried about it.”
Are these students really that
nonchalant about their future careers? Do they really think
that businesses and large corporations ignore the classes
that have nothing to do with the job they are applying for?
Is this an OK state of mind for our future leaders to have?
Granted, there are classes we are
forced to take that give us information that we will not use
as often as the information our primary classes give us (I’m
a writer, which means the things I learned in courses such
as Calculus and Statistical Methods will be, for the most
part, lost in the abyss of the recycle bin in my brain in
order to make room for a larger lexicon), but that doesn’t
mean we should not give the class our best. All classes
should be treated with equal attention, regardless of
whether or not the information sticks in the crevices of
your cortex at the end of each semester.
This mentality of doing the bare
necessities and nothing more in order to walk across the
stage is really quite frightening. We are the future leaders
and creators of the world. I personally wouldn’t want an
architect who earned a 65 in his or her physics class to be
building anything that I would have to walk under. Nor would
I want a doctor who made a 69 in his or her psychology class
to be prescribing me anti-depressants and other mind or mood
altering drugs.
The fact is we are going through a
vital part of our lives, a time of recreating our minds and
bettering ourselves in order to froge a future that does not
have us living in a gutter with a brown paper bag-wrapped
bottle, an empty stomach, rags for clothes, and the massive
guilt of not having worked in life to achieve a better one.
Before you start giving me wedgies,
swirlies, noogies, and point at me shouting “Nerd!” and
“Professor’s Pet!” in the hallways, let me center align this
view for you. While it should be the main focus during these
years, college shouldn’t be the only thing to rule your
life. Along with being studious, a college student must have
some venting time. That’s right! Along with textbooks and
spirals, partying is also a necessity to a college student’s
learning years.
One can’t possibly endure days upon
days of studying and not have a little R & R without facing
the dreaded “burn-out” factor. Forcing yourself to read and
memorize until your eyes and brain bleed is just as bad as
“just getting by,” and has been the cause of death for
college enrollment. There is nothing wrong with letting
loose during the weekend, or even during the week if you are
luckily low on the test quota during those five days, in
order to loosen up the vice of learning that is permanently
attached to your head when you enter college. Compromise and
time management are the keys in order to have a happy
college student with a good GPA.
I know I sound like a nagging mother,
but this is a true concern I have. There have been mornings
when I have thrown tantrums because I stayed out until 3
a.m. the night before when I have an 8 a.m. class and I
don’t want to get up. Thoughts of “Oh, I am sure I won’t
miss anything important,” and “This class is not important
to my major, so a ‘C’ wouldn’t hurt,” have crossed my mind
plenty of times. But I trudge on and just keep reminding
myself that this is eventually all going to be worth it.