Heroes
Changing Character
Kevin L. Mayer, co-news-editor
Recently, the image a hero reflects has been molded to portray a negative
perception, and the essence a hero once carried no longer applies.
When
asked about heroes, most people respond, they “don’t know.” That can be
taken one of two ways. Either they do not wish to share who their hero is,
or they just do not have one. There was once a time when heroes where
abundant. Among those described, as heroes were firefighters, policemen,
teachers, and even military personnel.
With
all that our country has been through, one would think the heroism of
firefighters, policemen, and the military would be greatly honored and
appreciated. This does not appear to be the case.
Younger Americans are looking up to sports figures and celebrities as idols
and heroes. The situation could not be more dire than it is now.
We see
sports figures being accused of drug abuse and violent crimes. Yet somehow,
when a basketball player runs into the stands and fights with a fan, the
media coverage heightens the popularity of the athlete. Anyone see a
football half-time show that included wardrobe malfunctions? How can this
be, and why does it improve popularity?
Our
society has de-evolved to a point that a negative event is spun into
positive coverage for the individual. The ideological thought behind the
spin is nothing but political correctness. Somehow the bad deeds of these
individuals are spun into the argument that they deserve our pity, or for
some reason, they just did not know any better.
It
amazes me that some teens look up to athletes who are around their same age.
A handful of these athletes left college early or came straight out of high
school to be a superstar. There are many Hollywood celebrities who dropped
out of college or have no college education to speak of. These are the
people our society raises on pedestals. Less educated, criminally negligent
idols are becoming the influential members of our society. This must alarm
more than just me.
With
the recent reality TV craze, more celebrities are receiving their own shows.
Since the number of these shows has increased, the number of rejects on TV
has increased as well. Of course, these shows are quality, family
entertainment, right? Hardly. The shows are nothing but filler. It seems
people are viewing these shows to pass the time, watching someone’s life
that is more pitiful than their own.
Filler
seems to be the only reason behind the death of heroes. A hero used to be an
individual who was looked up to, or idolized as someone everyone wanted to
be. Realistic expectations no longer apply. One cannot expect celebrities to
maintain a squeaky clean image throughout their life. Perhaps this is why
those who came before us produced unrealistic heroes among the realistic.
This is evident in the many comic book heroes previous generations have
created.
Which
came first, the lack of heroes or the lack of achievable goals? While
watching a celebrity reality show, one cannot help but notice a lack of
common sense and realism. These superstars come across as if they believe
they are better than everyone, and, therefore, they deserve everything they
want.
A
realistic hero reflects realistic goals for that individual. That is the
reason they are considered heroes, their accomplishments in life.
There
will always be situations where someone may be remembered by the negative
impact they had or the bad decisions made in his or her life. The unit of
measurement for most is results. Whether they are positive or negative, the
most influential aspects are the actions taken.
Many
people have taken their heroes straight to the heart. Family members have
become the heroes. I am the same way. I cannot have a hero who does not have
the same values or morals that I have. I want someone I believe in and will
continue to believe in. This is why family has taken a front seat when
someone is looking for heroes. Family members should have the same ideals
and ethics. Moreover, you can count on family members. They will be there
when needed.
To me,
a hero will do something few others choose to do. A hero runs into the
burning building to save others. A hero will take a bullet for someone. A
hero protects the weak. Where have all the heroes gone?