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Dear Editor,
I am responding to a pair of articles
in the October 15th edition of the Plainsman
Press: “College experience becoming constricted” by Courtney
Ortega & “College expectations overwhelming for some” by
Sawyer Thomas. I feel it is important to respond to these
articles, not because of the content of the articles, but
the mindset that underlies the writing.
The message behind the message that I
address in this letter is that of complaint in the system,
and the hope that the system will change to accommodate the
needs and desires of the student. If there were fundamental
flaws, discriminatory practices against certain groups of
students, or other heinous problems I could see the need for
changes to the system. In this case, students have been
passing though higher education for hundreds of years with
the same, if not more stringent requirements. College is a
time to separate, not those who can from those who cannot,
but those that will from those who will not.
If everyone had a degree it would mean
as little in the job market as a high school diploma.
Anything that is easy is worthless; the best things in life
are competed for, not bestowed. You either make the
sacrifices to have it or you don’t. Only when you have had
to fight or sacrifice for something does it acquire worth.
There is no dishonor in settling for a life that you want,
but to complain about it only brings dishonor to yourself
and draws attention to your unwillingness to do what it
takes to make things happen.
“The general rule is that for every
college hour you take you are supposed to study at least two
hours for that class. Who has that kind of time?” Indeed,
who does? Everyone has that kind of time, because everyone
has exactly 24 hours in a day; no more, no less. Some
people accomplish far more than others with the exact same
time. How do they do it? Think of those older students that
are scattered among you in your classes. How many of them
have jobs and / or children that they have to pick up from
school or daycare, help them with their homework, cook,
clean house, and get the kids to bed before starting
their own work. Many of them do not have the luxury of a
spouse to help out with everything that needs to be done.
It is a question, not of what is
provided to you, but of how you set your priorities and
manage your life. Do you spend a lot of time thinking about
what to do? Do you put things off until they absolutely
have to be done? How much TV do you watch in a week?
Do this for me before you begin to complain that college is
putting the squeeze on you.
Sit down and figure up how much dead
time you have in a typical week: Sleeping, watching TV,
driving around, talking on the phone, going out, partying,
spending time with a girlfriend/boyfriend… etc. The reason
I call it dead time, is that it is spent without
investment. This time is for your own benefit in the
present, it does nothing for your future.
Consider also your life balance. I
worked a full-time night shift job and went to school full
time during the day while I was here at South Plains. The
result was a drain on my health, my grades were in the
toilet, and I absolutely dreaded going to work.
(Consequently I re-organized after a semester of this.)
There comes a time for choices and sacrifices. If you have
to work full time then you probably will need to go to
school part time and graduate in six to ten years for a four
year degree. If part time school is not an option for you,
then you will have to make cuts elsewhere: your work
schedule, love life, family time, friends, down time, your
spending habits, etc. Remember, nothing worth having or
achieving comes without sacrifice. Find the cuts and make
them without excuse or lament.
Your life is your business. It is
completely in your hands. In order to achieve a goal you
have to look at what you are capable of doing, prioritize
things in your life, and be willing to give up what is less
important to achieve the more important. Some classes will
be more demanding than others. The 2:1 rule will not apply
to courses such as Anatomy and Physiology, where the study
requirements can be double what your average college course
will demand. Know what it is going to take by talking to
people and finding out what it takes to be successful.
Think of the Olympic-class athlete and
what they have to sacrifice to train for that one moment of
glory. Years of training, restricted diets, and being away
from family, friends, and a great deal of entertainment are
gladly sacrificed for an opportunity for the gold medal, not
necessarily a guarantee of even placing on the medal stand.
They know the meaning of sacrifice. They know their
priorities. They know what it means to focus on what is
important in order to make their dreams happen.
Too many students I have seen and
spoken to act as if their education is another job they have
to do. To them it is a hoop they have to jump through,
knowing if they clear all the obstacles they will get a
degree in the end. With this mentality school will never be
fun, challenging, invigorating, or exciting. You will never
develop the love for learning it takes to really get your
money’s worth from a college education. Minimum effort is
not really effort. Learn to love to learn.
Successful minds are those that are
curious and creative. They realize that an education is a
lifelong pursuit that continues as long as there is
something else out there to learn. It is a pursuit that
goes far beyond the boundaries of a formal education. What
is it that the average person has free access to but does
not have time to visit, and it exists in almost every
mansion built? The answer is a library. The average person
doesn’t read because they don’t have time, but you ask any
successful person what they are reading right now and they
can tell you. People who move forward know that education
is a passion that once lit can never be quenched; only fed.
They give up frivolities to pursue things that are truly
important to them and their dreams.
The power to make your dreams happen
resides solely in your hands. Your professors do not assign
grades, you earn them. Your time spent wisely or poorly is
completely under your control. How much you take on in your
life responsibilities is completely and utterly your call.
Every resource at the college is at your disposal from the
library to the computer lab, advising to tutoring. You have
to take charge of your life, and be in control. Talk to
people, research your options, and know what the outcome
will be of a decision before you make it.
All of this takes a level of maturity
that you may or may not have taken on yet. I believe that
all of you are capable of doing this or I would not bother
writing this response. South Plains College employees work
very hard to offer help to anyone with the courage and
desire to seek it.
Brandon Awbrey
Counselor & HUDV instructor
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